Too much to tidy? Try the 1–3–5 method
A soft way to start—right where you are
Most of us don’t need more organizing advice—we need a way to actually start without falling into an all-or-nothing spiral.
What is the 1–3–5 Method?
Think of this as a template, not a to-do list.
A soft structure that helps you feel done enough—without burning out or bailing for snacks.
1 focus area
Choose a single area to give your attention.
A drawer. A shelf. A corner you’ve been avoiding. That’s enough.
3 small tasks
Do three simple actions that move things forward.
Toss the junk mail. Hang the coats. Clear out the bags. That’s progress.
5 finishing touches
Add a few details that help the space feel settled.
Wipe a surface. Add a label. Light a candle. These aren’t extras—they’re how you feel the shift.
Example: The entryway
1 focus → The bench
3 tasks → Toss junk mail · Hang coats · Clear bags
5 touches → Wipe the bench · Add a key bowl · Straighten shoes · Place a doormat · Light a candle
Why It Works
It keeps you grounded.
You’re not organizing the whole house. You’re calming one zone.
It adapts to your day.
Got 5 minutes? Great. Got 20? Even better.
It builds momentum.
One drawer. One corner. One gentle shift. That’s how rhythm starts.
It honors your energy.
Some days you’ll do 1–3–5. Some days it might be 1–1–2. That’s okay.
What matters isn’t how much you do. It’s that you showed up.
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Well this sounds like a great idea and would have helped me when my children were younger to focus on an area etc instead of always trying to say keep everything tidy n clean!! Great article🌻
This is great advice! Especially for mamas 💗